Friday, March 16, 2007

Road Trip: Heading West for Retreat

BB NOTE: As we've been hinting about here at the Cafe, BabyBlue is heading west this weekend for a retreat in the mountains. The invitation came and could not be turned down. Will we be able to sneak off and find a Starbucks somewhere to blog? We think not since there is also a Winter Storm Warning in the area. Alas!

So what shall all the Cafe patrons do while we are off on retreat? Well, thanks to the good folks over at Living Church, we took a sneak peak at the readings on Sunday and once again the Lectionary Rules! We're posting the Gospel reading, one of our all-time favorites, for Cafe Conversation. With the House of Bishops meeting, the sorrow of South Carolina, and the whirling of tinfoil hat conspiracies flying through the air - it is indeed a welcoming to sit down and read again how we are all prodigals - all of us - and the Father's love extends so far He will even let us go.

Then comes that place when we realize what we've done and what we've lost and we go home expecting nothing, nothing - only to find the joy of our Father welcoming our return. How can we ever forget what price was paid for that reconciliation? How amazing is that?

There is much talk these days about the "ministry of reconciliation" but the meaning of that phrase seems to have changed - that reconciliation now means some kind of enlightenment. But the passage we see here, the picture of reconciliation is one that includes massive repentance and no claim to victimhood. The son is lost and he knows he's lost and expects nothing except to be a servant not only to his Father, but to his Older Brother. How wretched must that have been, but would have been welcomed by the son. That's not what he finds when he returns home - what matters most to the Father is that his son was lost and now has been found. He does not restore the inheritance that was squandered (there is a cost to our rebellion), but the relationship is restored, fully restored. That is amazing grace.

In this week as we've been remembering William Wilberforce and the major debt we owe him for his courageous and ultimately victorious stand for righteousness, we remember another man hugely influenced by Wilberforce, who was also lost - horribly lost - and then found. He wrote classic hymn, Amazing Grace, now as much a part of the American landscape for it continues to not only be our story, but our hope - and yes, even in these uncertain times - our prayer. It captures the meaning of this text and reminds us that grace is a gift, an amazing gift - and one that the Prodigal Son never expected.

If someone could make sure the Butterbeer does not run dry and the Kettle is on the boil, we'll be back here on Sunday. Don't forget to take the cookies out of the oven. God bless you all.

bb


The Fourth Sunday in Lent (Year C), March 18, 2007
BCP: Josh. (4:19-24), 5:9-12; Psalm 34 or 34:1-8; 2 Cor. 5:17-21; Luke 15:11-32

Here's the Gospel Text:

The Parable of the Lost Son
Jesus continued: "There was a man who had two sons. The younger one said to his father, 'Father, give me my share of the estate.' So he divided his property between them.

"Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living. After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything.

"When he came to his senses, he said, 'How many of my father's hired men have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired men.' So he got up and went to his father.

"But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.

"The son said to him, 'Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.'

"But the father said to his servants, 'Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let's have a feast and celebrate. For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.' So they began to celebrate.

"Meanwhile, the older son was in the field. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing. So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on. 'Your brother has come,' he replied, 'and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.'

"The older brother became angry and refused to go in. So his father went out and pleaded with him. But he answered his father, 'Look! All these years I've been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!'

"'My son,' the father said, 'you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.' "

Luke 15:11-32 (NIV)

From The Living Church:


The Pharisees grumble that Jesus welcomes sinners, and he tells them a parable about a rich man and his two sons (Luke 15). After squandering his inheritance, the younger son hits bottom. But then he comes to himself. He resolves to return home to his father and say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you; I am no longer worthy to be called your son; treat me like one of your hired hands” (Luke 15:19). That is a moment of conversion for the younger son, and he actually changes the direction of his life as he returns home.

But the father does not make his younger son beg for mercy. Filled with compassion, he runs to his son and hugs him. The father immediately organizes a great celebration, “for this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found!” (Luke 15:24). Unfortunately, the elder son is not pleased by the celebration for his brother. He has been obedient and hard working, and there have been no celebrations for him. The father reassures the elder son of his love: “Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours.” But the younger son’s return to life must be celebrated.

St. Paul explains to the Corinthians that God has reconciled us to himself through Christ, and that God has given us the ministry of reconciliation. We see the meaning of this reconciliation clearly in the parable of the prodigal son. His many sins are forgiven even before he returns all the way home. Instead of reminding him of his many failures and imperfections, the father clothes him in a wonderful garment. Instead of lecturing him about his foolishness or making him wait as a punishment, the father rushes to welcome him and celebrates his return. The father is delighted that his lost son is “alive again.” The younger son’s trespasses were not counted against him (2 Cor. 5:19); his transgressions were forgiven and his sin was put away (Psalm 32:1).

The Pharisees looked down on the sinners who were being healed by Jesus’ love, and they criticized Jesus for welcoming people who were unworthy. The Pharisees had no heart for forgiveness and reconciliation. But we are called to be “ambassadors for Christ,” in whom God reconciles the world to himself (2 Cor. 5:19-20). We are to make visible the welcome and forgiveness that God freely offers to everyone. We can include all kinds of people in the embrace of radical hospitality. We are to forgive others as we have been forgiven by God, and celebrate our reconciliation in Christ.

Look It Up
The priest’s concluding prayer at the Reconciliation of a Penitent, Form Two (BCP, p. 451), states “Now there is rejoicing in heaven; for you were lost, and are found; you were dead, and are now alive in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

Think About It
When have you experienced moments of conversion and reconciliation? How did you celebrate them?

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Take your pack off and enjoy a well-earned retreat BB. BTW.. What is Butterbeer?

Kevin said...

BB:

I also join my voice in the well wishing for the retreat. I do pray you made it safe through the reappearance of the winter weather.

I think you for this post. It's always a good story when the Gospel is peached, but I do have a connection to this one.

Trusting how well Mdlawlib was able to tread on near-sacred territory of Mr. Dylan, I'll take the chance to contradict the blog-mistress. There is an item I'm taking exception towards:

RE:reconciliation is one that includes massive repentance and no claim to victimhood.

I actually believe this is salvific related and can either draw people towards Christ or push them away from Him [I'll pick that theme up towards the end]. If the gen. reader is confused this is picking up on an off-line conversation where it was stated, "As long as we see ourselves as victims we will never recover. There is only one Victim and that is Jesus." I propose there is a better way to state this for one simple word is missing.

Logic Against:

Any theology has to be good enough to deal with the lowest of the lows. Rom 8:28 or Gen 50:20 are great verses to hang in your kitchen, but unless a theology can be explained to a grieving mother beside her child's grave than what use is it?

To claim there is no victimhood to those in slavery, to me is absurd. Earlier today I posted resources of haunting tales on this thread. Can you really tell a woman freed by IJM that there are no victims?

In my experiences at Truro, I bear witness to the cruelty of such logic. It allows some minor injustices to continue un-check and worst belittles to victim in a manner when exasporated blames a rape victim for the crime. If I were not convinced the Truth claims of Jesus were real an assoc. rec. would be a good reason to give up on Christianity. Hopefully that might send some shock wake up call, when I first came to Christ, failings of a priest caused me to stay away from "organized religion" for nearly two years. I'm one of the sheep more despite other Christan than because of them.

I dare say you really do not live this out in application. Not that you're a hypocrite, rather it looks good on paper but fails in real life. Else you'd have to deny your own emotions. In an odd twist, the last time this topic was raised you posted this. In my comments I repeated the answer I received in tough love of a friend. The ramification of 'no victim but Jesus' is that you'd lose any right to fell betrayed.

Proposing a better path:

"There is no innocent victim but Jesus."

That's a statement I can stand behind.

All of us are victims of sin, often our own sin, but a molested child is still a victim. I dare say that a prostitute can be raped (that "no" means "no"). Jesus is the only one without sin who was a victim.

In one of those odder moments, I was in a Truro Outreach event ("Taste & See") when the director of SLM Pregnancy Help Center told a tale about a girl she gave the name "Andrea." She gave just a little too much detail about "Andrea" that I may know her real name. See "Andrea" with all her piercings may not have been there by accident, as one at the counter of Denny's was praying. She was a shoo-in to birth her child, if she's the same, I'll say the whole reason she was in the cheap hotels on US50 was that she was kicked out of her parents house who demanded she have an abortion. This "Andrea" accepted Christ as Savior. As the story was told "Andrea" confessed having been a victim of molestation (not uncommon with in the DC Freaks), the director told her Jesus was the victim of sexual abuse, quickly and with big eyes "Andrea" responds "REALLY." What else to you call be stripped naked for all the world to see and nail to a cross and displayed before men and women of Jerusalem?

In this tale this lady's victimhood was connected to the ultimate Victim. She was still a sinner, but she did not deserve to be hurt (no matter what her mind says). A connection was made that she could relate and drew her to the Savior.

Now I do understand the origins. There is so much claiming of victimhood that it really is obnoxious. However, to deny this victim status makes it seem that the orthodox are holier than thou and ends up as rude as the other brother. I'll attest that it's a pushing away and worse it's only confirming to worthlessness of myself that goes when things are done. Now one has pushed away from Jesus and you made the person feel worse, often to react all the more to claim the right to their emotions, the world looks on and the name of God is reproached because of uncharitable approach to the Gospel (Romans 2).

Also if we truly not faultless and even if it VERY obnoxious, if we're only 5% to blame. Let us use the 5% to connect with people.

The Cross has two pieces. One vertical and one horizontal. So often our Church divide that un-naturally either focusing purely on the relationship with God (worship, purity of theology) or on the relationship to man (social justice). Only truly healthy when together in a crusiform shape where we connect the brokenness, and yes victimhood, of man to the One High Priest who knows what it is like thus can truly intercede for us.


Still Amazed by His Grace,
Kevin


BTW - I agree with Andy, what is Butterbeer?

Anonymous said...

Butterbeer -- a favorite drink of Harry Potter and friends.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wizarding_world#Butterbeer


Have a great retreat BB. Can't wait to see you soon! :-)


Karen B

Kevin said...

BTW - I grabbed the wrong post (correct time frame, but too window open at once I guess [one was betrayed by +Lee - my retort was 'you had every right, but what are you going to do about it?' Thanks to Miss ANC who had the gut to say that to me many years ago]).

Well, this does give me a chance to resurface from deep thoughts again, laugh at my stupidity, thank Karen for the Butterbeer answer and wishing you a happy return from retreat.

Anonymous said...

Kevin,

I was off line this weekend and I didn't see your post. I'm praying you see this response. I love what you wrote. Of course there are victims. God gave us free choice, do good or evil. If someone chooses to do evil than clearly another person could be the victim of their actions. Some people take victimhood too far, but clearly once a person is a victim we need to offer them help, spiritual and otherwise, to heal. No child asks to be molested. No woman asks to be raped. No family asks to lose a family member to senseless violence.

Kevin said...

Mdlawlib:

Yes, I've read your response & Thank you for your kind words.

Kevin

Anonymous said...

Kevin,

Again, I was just so touched by your post. I was thinking about it more last night and realized if we say there are no victims, what do we make of the Holocaust or the current situation in Sudan? I really believe there is a difference between victims and victimhood. I think by denying that people are victims we deny their pain. So much of religion fails because we can't see others pain. It's much eaiser to call people names than it is to see their humanity. (And I can be very guilty of that myself!) I have learned on this blog that my opinion is not always based on fact and that I am not always right. My eyes have been opened to my own failings. It's funny, but the fait h of the people at the Cafe have turned me back to my own faith in a more active manner. So thank you!